I had an interesting convo today that I wanted to ask you guys/gals how you felt on the subject. Is is wrong to acquire new friends of the opposite sex that you have NO attraction to? The lines have been laid, the boundaries are set, you have a friend that totally understands you have a man, or chick at home, and has no intentions on wreaking that, or ruining your new found friendship.
It seems to me that people can no longer be friends with the opposite sex, due to the increasing amount of emotionally hi-jacking partners that would rather have their partner either have and loose the few friends he/she currently has, rather than continue to grow socially and meet new people.
Scenario One:
You have a male friend at work that you have NO attraction to; none what so ever, and you and him, maybe a few other co-workers or not, decide to grab a quick lunch....Is that considered wrong? Or are you in some simplistic form of the word, cheating? There is no out of work communication, maybe an exchange of phone numbers or emailing, Facebooking, or Twittering, you are just friends, that happen to share similar interest.
Are you cheating?
Scenario Two:
Are you really going to tell me that while your dating your new (Boo) you can no longer, ever, hit the Confirm Friend button until you two either die or break up?
I personally think your outside your mind, if you think my social life should cease because of another persons insecurity. But maybe I'm just looking at this from a guys perspective.
There is a poll on the right nav that you are free to vote on and let me know you thoughts. Pass this along to your friends and see what they think. I'm really curious to know your thoughts on the subject.
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